1.当好的倾听者 Be a good listener

　　2.负责任 Be responsible

　　3. 不道人是非Never gossip

　　4.愿意帮忙Be willing to help

　　5.看起来舒服Be pleasant to the eye

　　6.说话有条理Speak logically

　　7.不咄咄逼人Never drive people up the wall

　　8.替人着想Stand in others' shoes